Funny enough, I saw one of my ex'es got married this year and it made me wonder what would have been. But ultimately, both men and women, make the best decisions they can with the information at hand. I broke it off with her because she was immature and was dealing with arrested development. And both her parents and brother were lawyers, so in any divorce scenario, I would be annihilated. I made the best decision at the time with the information at hand. No regrets. The best way to live life is in one direction: forward.